Being
a stay at home mom had hovered in my thoughts for so many years. However, I could not just give up my job
instantly then. I have two kids who
are growing up so fast. Prices of goods
are escalating. People are losing their employment.
But alas! My husband, realizing that I was no longer as efficient
as before at work, gave his sweet “Yes” (as if I proposed to him) to the
idea.
Now
that I stay at home, I have noticed changes in me.
Besides that my monthly paycheck have stopped, I, too, have stopped
purchasing things that are unneccessary.
Who needs another pair of shoes when you have lots stored in your
cabinet that you haven’t worn for months, even years? Who needs another beauty cream when there are
still jars and bottles of facial wash, toners and day/night cream in your
dresser? Who needs another cellphone
when you have one that is still functioning quite well? Sometimes, temptation does creep in. And that's why I stay away from malls.
Further, my crafty and practical sides (the ones I
did not know I possess) emerged. Instead
of going to the alteration store for my
daughter’s uniforms (hand me downs since they’ll change them next year
anyway), I altered them myself. I even sewed the tags on my son’s uniforms.
Instead
of using often different cleaning and deodorizing products available in the supermarkets, I
go natural. Yes! I researched in the internet and found things I have at home that I can utilize for these tasks. Lemon, white vinegar, baking soda, etc. are
stocked up in my pantry. But I retain the
regular clorox for our laundry. The
household help might complain if she has to mix ingredients first to remove
stains and dirt on our clothes. (I guess
I’ll try to research on that, too. Umm.)
Finally
the change that I thank God everyday. I spend
quality time with my family. Now, I can
say to my kids that mommy can accompany you to your field trips. I can say, mommy can attend the parent
teacher conference on a weekday. I can
say, mommy will teach you if you have any problems with your studies. I can say, mommy will listen if you need to
talk. I can also say, yes, hubby, I will
massage your head and back because I know you are exhausted.
Being
a stay at home mom has changed me little by little. And I am happy.
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